Deal with Sex in the Morning

In general , men are often experiencing morning erection , which is a natural phenomenon in the morning after waking . This phenomenon is known as nocturnal penile tumescence , as though emerging in the morning , in fact this process has been initiated during sleep . There are various theories about morning erections , such as the bladder hold more urine .Another explanation states that erections occur in stage REM sleep ( Rapid Eye Movement ) . Although at this stage one can dream , but there is no relationship between dreams with erections. But in the REM stage of neuronal excitability occurs that causes the blood flow to the penis . Clearly , this condition is one sign of a man experiencing impotence or not .According Sarlito Wirawan , psychologists , some men - especially those that have a high libido - are likely to want to have sex soon after waking . Although it is not done every day . Thus , not all men automatically want to have sex after getting out of bed in the morning . Most ordinary men , although they also have morning erection . Factors libido levels , age , and daily activities affect the presence or absence of sexual desire in the morning .As for women , sex drive does not arise at any time . To raise a woman's libido , need ' warming ' long and powered by a pleasant situation . For example, by fondling , seduction , or intimacy . ' Dawn Attack ' which comes suddenly , without any foreplay , and coercive , certainly very uncomfortable for women . Especially if he was still sleepy , tired , and her partner is still ' smell' former bedroom . Let alone terbangkit passion , often women should feel disturbed .Quite often the wife who refuses to have sex . Though this attitude sizable risk . Husband who denied his wish to have seksl tend to be sensitive and mudahtersinggung . If the wife was looking for a way ' safe ' , ie not reject husband's request , She typically did half-heartedly , even She did not ' enjoy ' .